I wanted to supplement my “goals” for the year with some guidelines for myself. Those are a bit easier for me to adhere to, given that I am quite rule-driven.
Here goes. I’m also avoiding fluff and cute bow tie content and getting down and dirty this year (iykyk). 2025 will be the year of fluff after all this hard work.
10 guidelines for 2024.
1. Stay away from people who are insistent about misunderstanding you
2. Pray without ceasing
3. People get what they need. The things I don’t need but rather desire, at the right time, with the right person, and at the right place, it will happen. Just focus on aligning these three things for yourself. Find your feet first, funmi, and the rest will flow.
4. Never think for once that you’re undeserving of good things. You deserve it + they will come.
5. Hyper focus on those that inspire you + disengage from those that don’t. Tailor your social media use to your vision
(i enjoy just chilling, not taking life too seriously, no strong face enjoying time with friends planning hang outs + rolling into partnership from there)
6. Keep things to yourself no matter how painful. you genuinely don’t know how much others care to hear your thoughts
7. Desist from the struggle friend persona. You are not a struggle friend. Everything you desire you receive. If you don’t receive it, it was not meant for you.
8. Take more pictures. You’re beautiful.
9. If it’s not exactly what you want don’t go for it unless you have no other choice. Most times, you have a choice.
10. Be patient + master the art of timing (remember the B.E.)
Bonus:
11. stay away from weird people.
12. Never let anyone tell you who you are and are not. You define that for yourself and it’s subject to change based on you.
Funmi Oke
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