Thursday, April 16, 2026

Angela Davis: Women, Culture , and Politics

March 2026, I read Angela Davis' Women Culture and Politics. It was really good. There were quite a few concepts & issues discussed that I want to note (I pretty much summarized them in my Notes app as I was reading and then fed to Claude to flesh out based on my already placed thoughts).


Without further ado, here goes. Enjoy! 



The Socialism-Feminism Connection
  • Davis argues that feminism divorced from economic analysis is incomplete; you cannot liberate women without dismantling the material conditions that oppress them. She presents socialism not as a foreign ideology but as a practical framework for addressing the specific wounds of Black communities: chronic unemployment, healthcare gaps, income inequality, housing instability, and reproductive coercion. Davis is unambiguous about where she stands politically. Capitalism, in her view, is not a neutral backdrop to women's oppression; it is one of its root causes. The same system that extracts labor from workers extracts reproductive labor from women and extracts both from Black people simultaneously. At the intersection of race and gender, capitalism does double and triple damage. Socialism, for Davis, is not an abstract ideal but a concrete political answer to the compounding crises that Black women face precisely because no single-issue movement, whether feminist or civil rights, can dismantle a system that operates on multiple axes of exploitation at once
  • The personal is not just political; it's also economic

Global Solidarity vs. Mismatched Priorities

  • Davis exposes a fundamental tension in the international women's movement: whose issues get to define "women's issues"? The White Woman's Burden dynamic plays out on a global stage. Western/white feminists tend to center issues like FGM, refugees, and "saving" women in the Global South. Black and Third World women's movements counter: what about unemployment, homelessness, mass incarceration, and infant mortality at home? This plays out concretely in two case studies:
  •   UN Decade for Women: U.S. feminist priorities often reflected white middle-class concerns, leaving Black and poor women's crises sidelined
    • Egypt: Davis unpacks the contention over what Egyptian women themselves identify as their primary struggles vs. what Western feminists project onto them. The disconnect isn't just cultural; it's political and patronizing

South Africa & Apartheid as a Women's Issue

  • Davis connects apartheid directly to feminist struggle. Racial capitalism doesn't just oppress Black men; it devastates Black women, families, and reproductive life. She challenges the American women's movement to see South Africa not as a foreign cause but as an extension of the same fight against racial and economic domination

Military Spending vs. Human Welfare: Then and Now

  • Writing during the Vietnam War era, Davis makes a pointed argument: every dollar spent on military aggression is a dollar stolen from welfare, healthcare, education, and housing
  • She essentially asks: what does "national security" mean to a Black mother who can't afford childcare or medical treatment? This argument hits differently in 2026. Watching the "One Big Beautiful Bill Act" funnel historic sums into defense while gutting social safety nets, Davis's critique reads less like history and more like prophecy. She would not be surprised. She would be furious, and she'd be right.

Art as Resistance: Music, Photography & Rupert Garcia

  • The final chapter pivots to culture as a political weapon.Davis argues that art isn't decoration; it's documentation, preservation, and mobilization. Rupert Garcia becomes the anchor example: his life's work is defined by a singular mission to create human images that preserve awareness of racial and national heritages and honor collective struggles for freedom and dignity
  • Garcia's photography refuses to let communities be erased, sanitized, or spectacularized; he insists on dignity. Music functions similarly in Davis's framework. Spirituals, blues, and protest songs serve as vessels of collective memory and survival

The Through-Line: Cohesion vs. Fracture

  • The book's quiet tragedy is the lack of solidarity, not because women don't share struggles, but because the movement keeps allowing racial and class hierarchies to reproduce themselves internally. Davis's call to action: genuine coalition requires centering the most marginalized, not the most comfortable. Until Black women's specific material conditions are treated as the feminist issue rather than a niche sub-issue, the movement remains fractured and therefore weakened.


Funmi 

Wednesday, March 18, 2026

Anything Good Can Wait

 That is what I told myself when I randomly woke up this morning in the middle of the night, scrolled through social media (quite briefly so as to not make it a habit to cut my sleep for the sake of socials), saw that Tems dropped a surprised EP and made a conscious decision to indulge at my own time, when I am most available. 

Anything Good Can Wait

 

This is a major deviation from 20-something year old me, willing to sacrifice my wellness for the sake of having a  first listen to a song as soon as it dropped at 11:59pm EST either because I was too excited about the project or because I, in true main character form, overestimated how much my opinion mattered on such content (most times it was a toxic mixture of both).



If it's that good, I'll consume & engage in it eventually. 


I plan to extend such a saying to other parts of my life. relationships, friendships, etc. 


Isaiah 60:22  




Funmi 

Wednesday, March 11, 2026

On Marriage and Making Money

 I read two books in the past two months, one on marriage and one on making money. Each brilliantly as good in their own respects, I felt it proper to write a few pointers of important concepts/thing learned from each that I don't want to forget anytime soon. 


I'll start with Earn What You're Really Worth by Brian Tracy and will then pivot to God is a Matchmaker by Derek Prince 


Earn What You're Really Worth by Brian Tracy 

  • Contribute Value
  • Personal knowledge and ability to apply it are your most valuable assets. 
  • Where are the customers? What do people want to buy? Which businesses and industries are serving customers best? Which businesses are growing in this economy which are declining? 
  • Become indispensable
  • Learn what you need to learn
  • Specialize in that area and become extremely knowledgeable in that area
  • What activities have been most responsible for my success in life to date -utilizing such skills to realize future success. 
  • Stay productive
  • fish where the fish are
  • what are your skills? What can I do well? What have I learned through education or experience that enables me to make a valuable contribution to my employer?
  • What have I done well at various jobs in the past? What activities have been most successful in my work life today
  • Contacts, Credibility, Competence
  • Intelligence: ask intelligent questions; curiosity 
  • Leadership Ability: take charge, volunteer for assignments, accept responsibility for achieving results in the required assignments
  • Integrity, Likeability, Competence: getting the job done, Courage: taking risks, Inner Strength: perseverance in the face of adversity 
  • Keys to Marketing Yourself 
    • Specialization -what are my skills
    • Differentiation - what to do to not only be different but better? 
    • Segmentation - look at marketplace and see where to apply yourself 
    • Concentration - focus and do a good job
  • Top people are in constant learning mode. They are curious, interested and eager to absorb new knowledge. They are hungry to learn. 
  • Develop a sense of urgency, fast tempo, bias for action. Do it Now. Do the easy things immediately (take an important phone call right now and deal with it) 
  • Posteriority: discontinue lower value activities 
  • Grooming is important 
  • Be idea oriented at work 
  • Continuous learning: podcasts, etc
  • Learn how to learn
  • speed and dependability
  • networking, join professional organizations 

God is a Matchmaker by Derek Prince 

  • The Gateway: offer your body to God as a living sacrifice 
  • God gives his best to those who leave the choice to Him 
  • Four areas to cultivate if you want to enter into God's plan for marriage: 
    • attitude toward marriage
    • attitude toward yourself 
    • attitude toward other people 
    • attitude toward your parents 
  • Eight guidelines to follow
    • walk in the light of God's word 
    •  cultivate fellowship 
    • be led by the Holy Spirit 
    • guard your heart 
    • be prepared to wait 
    • be prepared for death and resurrection 
    • seek the counsel of godly men and women 
    • cultivate God's favor 
  • 12 suggestions on women preparing for marriage
    • be a helper 
    • cultivate your relationship with the Lord 
    • cultivate commitment and loyalty 
    • cultivate your own self-esteem 
    • be willing to learn 
    •  be willing to serve 
    • be willing to adjust to your husband's priorities 
    • learn to pray and intercede for others 
    • learn proper care of your body 
    • observe the wife's behavior in exemplary marriages 
    • Trust God. Be willing to wait. 
    • Set your goals. establish your priorities 

  • Don't overlook the role of parents in seeking a spouse 
  • "And my confident response to young people today who desire ardently to marry, and who doubt God's love for them because they have no mate, is from Psalm 37:4: 'Delight yourself in the Lord and He will give you the desires of your heart' "

OK, one more inspiration I got is listening to Patricia Bright on Madame Joyce's podcast. A bonus, if you will. 

to be a millionaire you need to "see someone else (achieve it), not be jealous, be inspired, then take action" - Patricia Bright 

The action taking part resonates with me because I have two projects that I am working on this year that although a bit scary and cumbersome, I am committed to taking action on. I look forward to coming back to this post and seeing how far I've come since writing this, so help me God. 


Funmi 

Tuesday, March 10, 2026

Routines and Travel: a Kite Blog Post

 

Travel is one of life's greatest joys, but if you've worked hard to build a solid daily routine, the thought of disrupting it can feel like a necessary trade-off. The good news? It doesn't have to be. With a little intentionality, you can explore the world and keep your wellness habits intact. Here's how.

1. Anchor your routine to time blocks, not rigid schedules. 

The goal isn't to replicate your routine at home down to the minute, it's to preserve its spirit. Take running as an example. If you normally lace up at 6:30 AM, the real habit isn't the exact time, it's that you run in the morning. So on a holiday where sleeping in is part of the pleasure, a 9 AM run still counts. You're honoring the routine without letting perfectionism kill it.

And on the odd day where life genuinely gets in the way, an early 5 AM excursion, a packed schedule, a delayed flight, don't abandon ship entirely. A quick stretch, a short walk, or even a few minutes of mindful breathing is infinitely better than nothing. Then make it a point to get back on track the following day. The mindset shift here is simple but powerful: you're not working around your routine; you're building your schedule with your routine in mind.

2. Pack for your habits, not just your outfits. 

Your suitcase tells a story about your priorities. If running is non-negotiable, your running shoes aren't optional, they go in the bag before anything else. The same principle applies across the board.

A weekly pill organizer pre-loaded with your vitamins means you're never scrambling to remember what you've taken and when. A journal tucked into your carry-on means your writing practice survives even a transatlantic flight. Whatever your anchoring habits are, identify the tools they require and treat packing them as mandatory. When the physical items are with you, the routine has a fighting chance.

3. Use tools that keep you accountable. 

Willpower is finite, especially when you're in a new environment full of distractions and novelty. That's where simple accountability tools earn their keep. Set your alarm the night before so your morning run actually happens. Block out time in your calendar for your workout, your journaling session, or your wind-down routine and treat it like any other commitment on your trip. What gets scheduled gets done. 

4. Plan ahead with a solid itinerary.

Routines thrive on structure, and structure comes from planning. When you map out your days in advance, you can actively build your habits into the schedule rather than hoping they'll fit. You'll quickly spot the days that need flexibility and the ones where sticking close to your normal rhythm is very doable.

Speaking of planning ahead, Kite can help you build a smart travel itinerary in seconds, so you can spend less time organizing and more time actually enjoying the trip.


5. A little research goes a long way. 

If you juice daily, spend five minutes finding a juice bar near your hotel. If you follow a specific diet, pull up the menus of places you're interested in before you sit down and look for the iron-rich options, the plant-based dishes, the things that align with how you eat. If yoga is your anchor, search for a local studio and book a class. You might even discover a spot you love more than your one back home.

The point is: the resources to maintain your routine almost always exist wherever you're going. You just have to look for them before you land, not after you're already hungry and off schedule.

6. Communicate your needs on group trips. 

This one is underrated, especially for group travel. When you're coordinating with other people, your personal routine can easily get lost in the shuffle or worse, become a source of friction. The fix is simple: tell people upfront.

Let your travel companions know that you like to get a run in before the day kicks off, or that you need to swing by a specific spot on the way back to the hotel. They don't need to join you, they just need to know. It removes the guesswork, prevents awkward moments, and gives the group a chance to accommodate you without even thinking twice about it. On a group trip, communication isn't just courteous, it's what makes sticking to your routine actually possible.

Travel doesn't have to mean hitting pause on the habits that keep you feeling your best. With the right mindset and a bit of preparation, your routine can come right along for the ride.

Sunday, March 1, 2026

My Problem with First-World Problems

I was sitting on a plane recently when the guy next to me started sniffling. Not a one-time thing, a rhythmic, relentless, every-thirty-seconds kind of sniffle. The kind that burrows into your brain and makes it impossible to think about anything else. I felt the frustration bubbling up, and my first instinct was to mentally draft a complaint blog it - My Problem with Flight Seatmates, if you will. Then I caught myself. Here I am, hurtling through the sky at 35,000 feet in a metal tube, and my biggest grievance is my neighbor's nose. That's when I realized that I was about to become the very thing I on average cannot stand: someone complaining about a "first world problem" (a first world problem is a minor inconvenience or frustration that only exists because of the relative comfort and privilege of living in a wealthy, developed country). 

And look, I get it. Annoyances are annoyances and dismissing them entirely with "people in other countries have it worse" has its own kind of hollow. But what actually gets under my skin isn't the complaint itself; rather it is the passivity and wallowing that comes with it. Here's the thing with first world problems: they almost always come packaged with first world solutions; we just don't look for them as hard as we look for someone to commiserate with.

Take my sniffle situation. The moment I stopped mentally complaining and started thinking, the answers were obvious. I put in my noise-cancelling headphones and the problem solved in about fifteen seconds. Other "solutions" for someone that gets irritated easily could have included outright buying a business class ticket knowing this dramatically reduces the number of people in your immediate orbit. Booking a window seat means you only have one neighbor instead of two. These aren't revolutionary insights; they're just things you notice when you're looking for a fix instead of a grievance.

This pattern plays out everywhere. One could complain that the coffee shop is too loud to work in, but you could find a quieter spot, invest in a good pair of headphones, or simply work from home (for those with the privilege of doing so). Your phone battery dies too quickly but there are portable chargers small enough to slip into a jacket pocket, and most of us have known about this problem long enough to have solved it ten times over. Traffic is terrible, but there's usually a podcast that makes it enjoyable, a route app that finds a better way, or a schedule adjustment that avoids the worst of it altogether. The gym is packed after work, but it's a ghost town at 6am or midday if you can swing it. Slow Wi-Fi is maddening but a quick router reset, a different spot in the house, or a call to your provider can often sort it out faster than the time you spent complaining about it in a group chat.

None of this is to say that systemic inconveniences don't deserve to be called out. Bad service, broken infrastructure, things that genuinely need fixing at a larger scale, those are worth raising. But the everyday friction that we turn into running complaints? Most of it has a workaround if we're willing to look. The gap between problem and solution is usually a lot shorter than the gap between problem and complaint.

And underneath all of it is something worth remembering: the fact that these are our problems at all is a form of privilege. Clean running water, reliable electricity, the ability to fly somewhere, access to coffee and fast food and streaming services and same-day delivery. These aren't defaults for most of the world. They're extraordinary by historical standards, and we've normalized them so thoroughly that we've started resenting them when they're slightly inconvenient.

So, the next time something minor derails your day, I think it's worth pausing on two things. First: is there a solution sitting right in front of me that I haven't bothered to try? And second: am I grateful enough for the world I'm operating in that this problem even exists? Most of the time, the answer to the first question is yes. And if you sit with the second question long enough, the complaint tends to lose most of its weight on its own.

Monday, February 9, 2026

Reading List 2026

continuously updated 

  • The Forgotten Era: Nigeria Before the British Rule - Max Sioullun
  • The World Was In Our Hands - Chitra Nagarajan
  • Becoming Nigerian: A Guide - Elnathan John
  • Fireflies on the Lagoon - Tunde Leye
  • Butter Honey Pig Bread - Francesca Ekwuyasi
  • I Do Not Come to You by Chance - Adaobi Tricia Nwaubani
  • Angela Davis: Women, Culture & Politics - Angela Davis
  • Hail Mary - Funmi Fetto
  • Lagos Sugar Baby - Ebere Joy Ekekwe
  • Das Doppelte Lötchen - Erich Kästner
  • Earn What You're Really Worth - Brian Tracy
  • Tremor - Teju Cole
  • In Our Interest: How Democracies Can Make Immigration Popular - Alexander Kustov
  • Adventures of Huckleberry Finn - Mark Twain
  • An African Abroad - Olabisi Ajala 
  • The Tragedy of Victory -  Godwin Alabi-Isama
  • One Leg on Earth - Pemi Aguda
  • So Long a Letter - Mariama Bâ
  • This Thing Called Love - Oreva Ode-Irri
  • On Rotation - Shirlene Obuobi
  • Building a Second Continent - Howard W. French
  • Destination Biafra - Buchi Emecheta
  • God is a Matchmaker - Derek Prince with Ruth Prince 
  • Made in Japan - Aoki Morita 

Wednesday, January 14, 2026

My Personal Curriculum, Q1

 Inspired by Ire Aderinokun’s blog post on this topic , I decided to write out mine (all three of these were already somewhere on my to-do list for this year), but I like how this formalizes and measures it. 

 

🎓 My Personal Curriculum — Q1 2026


📅 Key Dates

  • Start: 5 January 2026

  • End: 31 March 2026

  • Duration: 12 weeks

💡 “The capacity to learn is a gift; the ability to learn is a skill; the willingness to learn is a choice.” — Brian Herbert
“Education is the most powerful weapon which you can use to change the world.” — Nelson Mandela


📚 Subjects

🌍 Global Mobility Certification (WERC)

Goal: Obtain or be exam-ready for WERC Global Mobility Certification
Why this matters: Strengthens my credibility and technical depth in global mobility, corporate immigration, and cross-border workforce strategy.

Focus Areas

  • Global mobility fundamentals

  • Compensation & benefits

  • Tax, payroll, and compliance

  • Policy design & program management

Outputs

  • Completed WERC coursework

  • Practice exams

  • Certification exam (or scheduled date)


🇩🇪 German Language Improvement

Goal: Improve conversational and professional German fluency
Why this matters: Supports my international background, EU mobility expertise, and long-term global practice goals.

Learning Methods

  • German books (graded + professional topics)

  • German movies & TV (with subtitles → without)

  • Daily vocabulary + sentence building

  • Weekly speaking practice (self or partner)

Outputs

  • Comfortably hold everyday conversations

  • Improved listening comprehension

  • Professional vocabulary refresh


🇨🇦 Canadian Immigration – In-Depth Knowledge

Goal: Build strong, working-level knowledge of Canada’s immigration system
Why this matters: Expands my immigration expertise beyond the U.S. and positions me for global immigration or advisory roles.

Focus Areas

  • Express Entry & CRS system

  • Work permits (LMIA, exemptions, intra-company transfers)

  • Study permits & pathways to PR

  • Provincial Nominee Programs (PNPs)

  • Compliance & employer obligations

Outputs

  • Personal reference notes/playbooks

  • Ability to confidently advise at a high level

  • Comparative understanding (U.S. vs Canada)


🧠 Weekly Structure (Optional Add-On)

  • 2–3 hrs: WERC study

  • 1 hr: German (daily micro-sessions encouraged)

  • 1–2 hrs: Canadian immigration deep dives

  • Weekly reflection: What I learned + what to adjust


This was cool to make, and in efforts to not take life too seriously this year and have fun with things, I’ll take the learning process in stride, enjoy it, and look back on the 12 weeks come April to see the progress made <3 



Funmi